I may have a solution!
Do your job, get good at it, and spend X hours a week striving at what ever the dream is. Today there is no disrespect for the bi-vocational worker. We are all contractors now. As far as the “dream” goes, you can almost always do something towards the big goal every week, however incremental. In fact, I believe, regularly striving toward and revising your goals, is the difference between a wish and a goal. Let me know what you think.
Til we chat again,